Motivating a child to do the right thing or do what is required of them, or to learn a new language, or perhaps try to discover the child's skills, is first and foremost linked to parents knowing their children's skills, understanding their area of interest, preferences and tastes of their choice compared to games, books or other entertainment materials, and getting this requires a lot of effort. Dr. Ibtihaj Talib, Professor of Curriculum at the Faculty of Kindergarten, sets a set of rules for "Madam Net" followers, with a number of ideas and internal games to motivate the child
Golden rules for stimulating the child
A plan must be drawn up to motivate the child.
Plans must be made to motivate the child.
1. Setting the goal and putting the son on the first road, so that completing the task afterwards is easy for the child, and the goals are simple and easy to implement, and may be long-term, such as getting a sports tournament, or completing the study of a foreign language
2. Develop a plan and plan together to implement it;
3. Rewards are the most common way to motivate children, it can be something as simple as TV time, ice cream, cake or toy, and children are happy with the simple ones, which helps them develop some of their habits
Stimulating the child in a reward style may be useful in some cases, but at a certain age the child will not help try to build his personality or contribute to instilling values
4. Often the child has a positive and satisfied feeling in the case of doing or accomplishing something good, which is a reward in itself, and parents can even ask the child how he feels after completing or ending a school imposition on him, which increases the child's confidence and self-esteem
5. Targeted conversation between the parent and the child, about the main reason for doing the thing, and the negative effects of not doing it, by asking the child the question, and waiting for the answer with a welcoming and understanding chest
6- Do not order your child to do something, especially if it is new to it and has not implemented it alone before, the method of stimulating the child is a strong factor in meeting the child or not in the first place
Participating in garden cultivation
Child's participation in garden planting
Garden planting is a child-stimulating hand-held activity
Puzzles, allow the child to choose any drawing he can draw and then cut it using scissors to eventually produce a puzzle game of the image, then reassemble the pieces of images as they were the first time, and it is possible to use ready-made images for puzzle activity
Toy figurines, a music clip is played, with children imitating some animals or some cartoon characters, then turning off the clip suddenly, and with it stands the movement of the child, with the sound stops and stability, then presenting prizes to the winning children.
Parents can get their children to read by following group reading methods with them or by putting reading content around the house, and supporting them with fun graphics
There are a large number of simple hand-held activities that children can do, some of which use beads to make bracelets, draw shapes on rocks, and use nail polish to paint and color.
Participating in a child's activity
Child participation in games
The father can help the child in a game.
Garden planting activity is not only about planting a seed in the soil, but it provides the child with many useful information about how the plant grows, and it stimulates him to eat the vegetables he has planted.
The father can help his child engage in fun and exciting activity by helping him create a photo album that contains all the pictures that bring father and son together and show the feelings of love and tenderness between them
Musical chairs: This game is based on the order of a number of chairs in the form of a circle, in which the number of chairs is required to be one fewer than the number of children, and then the music is played
When stopped, the child who did not find a chair to sit on is excluded, one chair is removed from the existing set of chairs, and the last person on the last chair is the winner of the game.
The child tries to remember twenty-five words within one minute, then recognize these words from a long list full of different words, and this game helps enhance the memory of the individual
Collect animal pictures or various drawings and then install them on pages of paper or even cloth through the use of glue material, and then a parent reads some stories while making the child refer to the animals mentioned in this story
Children's Mental Skills Development Games
Cubes of toys that stimulate a child's skills
Drawing and coloring of child-inducing games
Building cubes: One of the basic games that helps stimulate mind and creativity, and develop many of the child's skills. All you need is a set of blocks in different colors and shapes, and leave the rest to your child's imagination.
Al-Baal: A game that helps the child teach hand-eye coordination, logical thinking, and its greatest benefit is the increased confidence that comes from completing the puzzle, which leads to improved self-esteem
Connecting words to images: This game needs to capture the word and connect it to the right image, help your child know the alphabet, improve memory, as well as form words
Role play is a great way to enhance a child's creativity and imagination, this game helps strengthen social communication and adapt to the environment surrounding the child
Match shape and meaning: A game that improves the child's memory, use several leaves and draw as an example, above one umbrella and in the corresponding paper draw rain, for example, so that your child learns, for example, that we use the umbrella to protect ourselves from rain
Hiding and searching: It's one of the games that children play all over the world, helping them improve their analytical skills and distinguish between the right and safe place to hide and a bad place
